Just as predictable as school starting each fall are the calls
from parents about their teenagers being tired all the time. "Could
there be a physical problem?" we are asked. The teen is brought
to the office for an exam, and invariably no medical problems
are found. So why is this high school student always complaining
of being tired, needing naps after school, and ironically unable
to fall asleep at bedtime?
The first problem facing the high school student is the challenge
of waking up at 6 a.m. to get to school by 7. High school starts
very early. In nearly all districts it starts earlier than junior
high or elementary schools. Then the teen may be involved in sports,
after school activities or a job that runs right up to dinner
and sometimes beyond. Throw in some down-time watching TV or listening
to music, talking on the phone and socializing with friends -
oh, and don't forget time for homework - like your teenager sometimes
does. With these busy schedules, the average teen has problems
getting to bed before 11 p.m., and that leaves only 7 hours for
sleep before starting all over again at 6 a.m.
Often the teen complains of being tired but is still not able
to fall asleep, resulting in even less sleep at night. Let's also
look at what the teen's weekend looks like - staying up late,
often well past midnight on Friday and Saturday nights, and then
sleeping past noon.
Before we get to the solutions, we need to know that the average
teen continues to need about 8 to 10 hours of sleep a night. That's
56 to 70 hours a week. It's probably better to think about this
sleep requirement as a minimum amount one has to deposit in the
"sleep bank". If the teen gets only 45 or 50 hours during
the week, there's a penalty to pay, which persists until the shortfall
is repaid. That's why teens need to sleep those 12 hour nights
on weekends and take naps after school - to make up for the sleep
lost during the week. If the debt is not repaid, the teen may
suffer from fatigue, irritability and a fall-off in school performance.
It is also hard to fall asleep at night when bedtime and especially
when the time one awakens changes from day to day. Most bodies
and minds need to stay in a regular diurnal rhythm or pattern
of sleep and awakening to function at its best. Now you have a
teenager complaining of being tired but still unable to fall asleep.
The suggestions below will help most teens fall asleep better
and feel better after getting up in the morning.
SUGGESTIONS
If your child is having sleep problems that can't
be solved with these simple measures, perhaps a visit to the doctor's
office is needed. There may be other issues such as depression,
anxiety or other sleep disorders causing the problem.